Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Significant Loss

Having been involved in the online world of Knitting for about 20 years now, I've gotten to know a number of people without ever having met them.

Profound Impact

There have always been the online members of forums who showed up a little more vibrantly.  People like Marilyn Roberts or Stephanie Pearl-McPhee or Franklin Habit or Ted Myatt.  They just shone a bit brighter in my virtual orbit.  Those three (and many other shining stars), I've had the good fortune of meeting.  And in the case of Marilyn, I had some firsthand experience of enjoying time with her before having to mourn her passing.

Years ago, one of those shooting stars showed up.  He had the unexpected name of Millard Fontenot and he was from Louisiana and I liked him right away.  First of all, he was another man who knit.  Second, I noticed his forthright way of seemed to indicate an integrity that encompassed everything he wrote about.  He didn't seem concerned if people liked his latest project as he described  it with pride...he didn't seem concerned if people like him when he'd call someone out on behavior he thought was mean-spirited or hateful.  He always stood up for what he thought was right and I always agreed with his ethics.

He always seemed to know who he was...he didn't need anyone else to define him.

I also thought he was a beautiful looking man...just the right combination of physical attributes in his face, with a spirit that showed through in his eyes and his smile.

Yes, I liked Millard...I was glad to be part of forums he was in...I was certain I'd eventually get to meet him one day.  We had a number of on-line conversations, where he'd confirm my intuitions about what a good guy he was.

Then he did something that made me love 2012 he started dating and then moved in with another man who I'd known for years in the on-line forums and at the Men's Knitting Retreats in Seattle area...Kerry Shannon.  Their union was a shining point for men's knitting forums.  And he couldn't have picked a nicer guy.  The power couple in men's knitting circles.

You can imagine the shock of learning of Millard's passing this past Thursday, March 15th.  I'm still crying now as I post this blog entry.  Please send up a prayer or good thoughts or positive energy to Kerry and the rest of Millard's family and friends who loved him.  He will be missed greatly.

Current Knitting

Almost finished with the Silky Wool Cardigan

I've sewn up the button-hole band, attached most of the buttons and finished knitting the collar.  Two more buttons, tacking down the collar and weaving in ends and this baby will be ready to wear.  I'm hopeful that its completion signals the end of the snowy weather we're having here...March is supposed to go out like a lamb after all.

And the near-completion of my current project was perfect timing to start a Millard Fontenot design, The Brethren Sock.

Millard designed and donated this pattern to the Southeast Men's Knitting Retreat and Kerry expressed the desire to see a lot of this pattern made in Mill's memory.  Please go to the Ravelry pattern (it's free) and start a pair of The Brethren Sock yourself and also "Favorite" this pattern on Ravelry.

Monday, March 19, 2018

Never Too Organized

Does it seem that no matter how organized one's life is, there is always room for more organization?

Life Expands to Capacity

Or perhaps, with organization comes additional capacity and nature abhors a vacuum?

Combining concepts here a bit, but when it comes to getting organized in various areas of my life, it seems as if I get more organized, more content appears in my life to be handled.  I'm not sure if it's the universe that is just looking to balance things out for me, of if it's me just being more open to saying yes to things.

Some examples are the men's knitting retreats and my knitting

With the retreats, I've gotten extremely organized and efficient at producing the annual retreat in Upstate NY in May.  I maintain a database of participant information, set up web pages for registration, post announcements, send out mass-e-mails, track finances, contract with the retreat center, organize workshop leader volunteers, develop rosters and personalized agendas, create name tags...etc., etc., etc.  It's a huge amount of work that I find simple and easy (after 10 years of doing it).  So it opened up space for a second retreat in Upstate NY in September and the opportunity to help with the administrative aspects of a Men's Knitting Retreat in Ontario for our Canadian brethren.

As for my knitting and blah-gging about it...everything seemed stash, my crafting area, my schedule to knitting and spinning and my ability to keep up with writing a blog entry 3 times a week.  Adding Gerty into the mix (Gerty is my antique Gearhardt Circular Sock Knitting Machine), has thrown it all up into the air and I'm organizing as fast as I can as all of it settles back down.

Please don't consider any of this as a complaint...I couldn't be happier.  Thaddeus will tell you that I'm one of those people that likes to stay busy and he's correct.  I'm happy when my life is full to the brim with activity that I enjoy.

Current Knitting

The weekend allowed me to make an enormous amount of progress on the Silky Wool Cardigan.

I've sewn on the sleeves and sewn up the inside sleeve seam.  I've also knit up the button side of the button band and decided on which buttons to use.

Just finished the button-hole band and need to sew up in the fold-over hem on the inside.

And by the way, if you're interested in buying Silky Wool at a significant discount, Little Knits has it on sale right now.

Friday, March 16, 2018

Men In Full Retreat

The desire to commune with one's own people has never been more evident than in the recent surge in popularity of the Men's Knitting Retreats.

Growing Evidence

Currently,there are six regional retreats:
  • Spring North East Retreats in Upstate NY at Easton Mountain in May 
  • Spring North East Retreats in Upstate NY at Easton Mountain in September 
  • Great Lakes retreat at Circle Pines Center in Michigan in November
  • West Coast retreat at Dumas Bay in Seattle area on Labor Day Weekend
  • Southeast retreat at Asbury Hills in South Carolina in October
  • Rocky Mountain retreat at Moak Lodge in Estes Park, Colorado in August
These unique events have become incredibly popular for guys who participate in the fiber world, and they seem to attract a fantastic group of guys.  Many of the retreats sell out rather quickly even as we grow the number of events being scheduled.

Recently, we added second North East retreat in September to the schedule and the events keep filling up to capacity.  And I honestly don't think we've plateaued yet

Big Announcement!
We have also just scheduled and opened registration for TWO new Men's Knitting Retreats.

The first one is the Men's Knitting Retreat North (MKR North) in Stirling Ontario in August for our Canadian fibre-guys.

If you know any guy who would like to spend a long weekend in a beautiful old pioneer cabin in the beautiful old forests of Ontario, they can learn more about it and/or register here:
The second one is the Mid-Michigan Men's Knitting Retreat ( MMMKR) in Williamston, MI in June.

Taking place in a retreat space specifically for crafters, this retreat will let 8 guys join in celebrating the fiber crafts
Coincident with all this new activity, I was just recently interviewed by a freelance writer who is doing an article on knitting retreats in The Globe & Mail, one of Canada's national newspapers.  We're hoping for an April publication date.

Current Knitting

Finishing the second sleeve of a sweater always seems like a big milestone.

I plan on attaching the sleeves and blocking the cardigan to make sure it fits as I had hoped.  I will do any shaping/changes necessary before starting to do the button band and collar.

I also did a few more rows on the still-increasing knitted sheet.

I'm still not at all sick of thousands of tiny stitches and I'm still dreaming of seeing this completed sheet on my bed.

Wednesday, March 14, 2018

How To Ruin a Retiree's Schedule

Spoiler Alert:  For those of you still in the workforce...when you retire, you schedule gets more difficult to manage...not easier.

Structured Time vs. Unstructured Time

Now that Thaddeus and I are both retired, our schedules are whatever we want them to be...kind of.

Obviously our schedules are determined by factors out of our, business hours, demands of family and friends...etc.

But having such an open, unstructured schedule makes it a bit more difficult to schedule time with others.  I can't tell you how many times someone will ask, when are you available to chat...for meet...etc.?  How do I respond to that?  I typically eat lunch at noon and a lighter meal at 6:00 pm.  I also have two weekly scheduled times I'm booked.

But who's to say if I want to go to Costco on Thursday morning, or go on a bicycle ride on Monday afternoon because the weather is expected to be good, or pick up a book I have reserved at the library on Friday morning?

It was so much easier to schedule in others in my life when I had a block of structured, "unavailable time" due to work.

Don't get me wrong...I don't miss work even a little bit.  And I am getting more and more comfortable with an unstructured schedule.  But it kind of reminds me of when someone told me that when a goldfish is released from a confining little bowl into a larger tank of water, it will continue to swim within the confines the size of it's old bowl (I don't believe this is true, but I like the analogy none the less).

Current Knitting

With an unstructured schedule, you'd think I could at least make progress on my knitting.  Alas, with the demands of a cat in my lap, and getting to the end of a ball of yarn without another one wound and ready, I have done no knitting on the Silky Wool Cardigan sleeve since Monday.

I did do some additional work on the Knitted Sheet.

But you can see that is starting to progress much more slowly as it widens (as I predicted).

Monday, March 12, 2018

Life Without Smart Phones

Recently, a number of events have shown how critical this tiny little device has become in my life.

Lying To Myself - Again

I'm not the type of person who is constantly looking at my phone.  I don't need to read and/or respond to a text message within milliseconds of receiving it.  I don't get the shakes if I accidentally leave my phone at home when I'm away for a few hours.  I really try to make sure my phone usage improves my life rather than intrudes on it.

For me, those are all true statements...the lie..."I can do without a smart phone."

I rarely utter that phrase, but it was an underlying thought many times when Thaddeus would be annoyed that I was responding to a vibration in my pocket.

Yes, technically, I could exist without a smart phone, but I have come to rely on it in many ways.  Two recent examples:
  1. During the latest snow storm/power outage, we were without power for about 28 hours.  During that time, while I still could use my lap top while the battery lasted, we didn't have WiFi or internet access.  My phone turned out to be incredibly useful for finding out when our utility company planned to restore power and interacting with people in my local community to see if anyone needed anything.
  2. Last week, my mom fell and fractured her ankle.  She's in a "boot" and can't drive for at least six weeks.  She asked me to show her how to use Uber.  But she doesn't have a smart phone.  While she can use her computer to book Uber rides, it's a bit more difficult getting a ride back home, or tracking when the driver will be there to pick her up.
I recognize that neither of these two situations absolutely required a smart phone, but they certainly showed how important they are becoming in my life.

Current Knitting

I kept thinking I'd finish the second sleeve of the Silky Wool Cardigan before writing this blog.

But alas, I still have a few more inches and the sleeve cap shaping to finish. 

Also, as the Knitted Sheet continues to widen, the pace of growth gets slower and slower.

Soon, the growth will seem glacial and I'll stop posting about it with any regularity.